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Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
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Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
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"Not only did she look after us well but also treated my late husband with compassion. Tracey at Staines could not have been more helpful and made us feel very much at ease and listened to exactly what we planned."
— Alison Parsons (about Tracey)
"The arrangements were expertly managed by Graham — including arranging a quiet space for junior family members to decorate the white cardboard coffin! Holmes were very professional and caring from the outset and we have no hesitation in recommending Holmes & Family as excellent Funeral Directors."
— Paul Mason (about Graham)
"When I struggled with uploading photos she was able to complete for me. When you are under pressure and grieving these little things make so much difference! I was so pleased when Tracey told me they could bring my loved one to a crematorium near me even though it was a 45 minute drive away."
— Nicola James (about Tracey)
"She didn't try to sell me an expensive package, she took the time to get to know me and my family and listened to our needs. She was incredibly supportive and showed so much empathy. I will be forever grateful to them for everything they did during this difficult time for my family and I."
— S B (about Tracey)
"We visited five funeral homes in Ashford and the surrounding areas, as it was so important to us that our Dad received the very best send off. Nothing ever felt rushed, and no request seemed too much — Tracey always found a way to make things happen. We will never forget the care and compassion shown to our family during such a difficult time."
— A Herbert (about Tracey)
"We lost our baby boy suddenly and unexpectedly at 25 days old. We were in shock and utterly devastated. Tracey is absolutely amazing. She talked us through the process of collecting and caring for our son. She really listened to what we were saying and was extremely patient. She quickly got a sense of who we were as parents and what we wanted for our son's funeral. We're absolutely heart broken that we had to organise a funeral for our baby, but Holmes & Family made it as smooth and easy as possible."
— Sarah (about Tracey)
A Herbert
a month ago
We visited five funeral homes in Ashford and the surrounding areas, as it was so important to us that our Dad received the very best send off. Choosing Holmes & Family was an easy decision, and I’m so glad we did! From our very first meeting, Tracey was kind, patient, and incredibly supportive. It’s impossible not to like her when you first meet her. Nothing ever felt rushed, and no request seemed too much…Tracey always found a way to make things happen. She was transparent about costs throughout, gave honest guidance, and her communication was always clear and prompt. The office feels calm and welcoming, and the chapel of rest is beautifully decorated. The hearse was spotless and looked brand new. And the bespoke flowers arranged through Tracey were absolutely beautiful! On the day itself, Tracey, Ben, the pallbearers and the hearse driver were outstanding. They went above and beyond our expectations, and Ben showed such genuine respect towards our Dad. We will never forget the care and compassion shown to our family during such a difficult time. I cannot thank Tracey and her team enough and would highly recommend them.
S B
a month ago
Tracey was absolutely amazing. She showed so much patience and kindness throughout the entire process. I viewed other funeral directors but finally decided on her and I’m glad I did. She didn’t try to sell me an expensive package, she took the time to get to know me and my family and listened to our needs. She was incredibly supportive and showed so much empathy. I highly recommend her and her team. Her colleague Oliver was with us on the day of the funeral, he was professional and showed the same level of kindness and compassion along with the rest of their team. They helped us to have a beautiful service and made sure everything ran smoothly, I will be forever grateful to them for everything they did during this difficult time for my family and I.
Alison Parsons
2 months ago
Having read the positive comments about Holmes & Family we can concur with all that has been said. Tracey at Staines could not have been more helpful and made us feel very much at ease and listened to exactly what we planned. Not only did she look after us well but also treated my late husband with compassion. The funeral itself went perfectly. We would definitely recommend their services to those in need.
Sarah
3 months ago
We lost our baby boy suddenly and unexpectedly at 25 days old. We were in shock and utterly devastated. None of our close friends or family had used a funeral director in the area, so we visited a number of companies to try and see who would be best to use. Originally we were going to use another company in Ashford, but I am so glad that, based on gut instinct, I gave Tracey a call. Tracey is absolutely amazing. She talked us through the process of collecting and caring for our son . She was also very honest with us at every stage in terms of whether we should view his body, costs associated with his funeral, administrative issues etc. She really listened to what we were saying and was extremely patient. She quickly got a sense of who we were as parents and what we wanted for our son’s funeral. On the day itself, she attended the service alongside Lee. Lee was incredibly professional and did an amazing job of assisting us to give our son the best send off. We’re absolutely heart broken that we had to organise a funeral for our baby, but Holmes & Family made it as smooth and easy as possible. Tracey and Lee are a real credit to the organisation, and I would highly recommend their services for your loved ones.
Nicola James
4 months ago
I did my research in the staines area for a good funeral directors as I didn’t know the area well. Holmes and family came up a few times and I wasn’t disappointed. My call was answered out of hours which is a huge help when office hours are difficult with little ones around. I was then able to suggest a suitable time to take a call the following day during little ones nap time. Tracey rang me back at that exact time which was very refreshing and not many companies manage this ! Tracey helped to make things easy and explain things well. When i struggled with uploading photos she was able to complete for me. When you are under pressure and grieving these little things make so much difference! I was so pleased when Tracey told me they could bring my loved one to a crematorium near me even though it was a 45 minute drive away. On the day Oliver was professional and informative and everything went smoothly. Highly recommend Holmes and family. This is the second funeral i’ve arranged in 6 months and two very different experiences!
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Question of 3
Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
Sail Probate · Fixed fees, nothing upfront
Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
Don't worry — lots of people aren't sure at this stage. A quick chat can work out whether the funeral costs can be covered.
Want to talk it through?
Free, no obligation.
Want to check with a specialist?
Free, no obligation.
Want to find out for sure?
Free, no obligation.
Sail Probate · Trusted by thousands of families
A specialist will call you soon
Free, no-obligation advice from Sail Probate
What happens next
Request received
Just now
A specialist reviews your details
Within 1 hour
You'll receive a call
Within 24 hours
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
Result saved
If you need help later, call Sail Probate free:
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
We'll give you a call
A Sail Probate specialist will talk you through everything and answer any questions.
Interested in: We handle everything (£6,000)
Interested in: Just the probate application (£1,000)
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
No problem
If you'd like to talk about probate or funeral costs, call Sail Probate free:
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