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Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
Sail Probate · Fixed fees, nothing upfront
Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
Don't worry — lots of people aren't sure at this stage. A quick chat can work out whether the funeral costs can be covered.
Want to talk it through?
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Interested in: We handle everything (£6,000)
Interested in: Just the probate application (£1,000)
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If you'd like to talk about probate or funeral costs, call Sail Probate free:
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J and L Sturney Funeral Directors was founded in 1975.
Our dedicated teams at our Lyndhurst funeral homes are committed to creating tailored funerals that reflect the unique life of your loved one.
We can be contacted 24 hours a day, by telephone, and are here to discuss your needs. Or if you prefer, we can visit your home to discuss funeral arrangements.
"She guided me through my Mother's funeral arrangements in such a lovely way. She made me feel valued. The funeral was perfect - I wouldn't have changed a thing."
— Susan Lane (about Maria)
"It made having to arrange my cousin's funeral from 120 miles away so very much easier. All our needs were met by Helen who was so kind and compassionate. Thank you so much."
— Marion Barnes (about Helen)
"It has been a comfort to the families to know that their loved ones were shown such respect as they left our care. Helen was particularly wonderful to speak to, a reassuring voice at the end of the phone which was needed by our families at that time."
— isabelle Lucy (about Helen)
"Helen helped us through this very difficult period with her unfailing kindness and dedication to the minutest detail to make sure everything was as we had requested. We cannot thank her enough."
— Jennifer Cordey (about Helen)
"The amount of thought and care that went into the whole process was heartwarming. Every little detail from having a presentation cushion for his medals, to the suggestions of music to give this wonderful old soldier the send off he deserved."
— Dave Kiddle (about Maria)
"Helen, you are a star and we could not have asked for more. She is compassionate, friendly, warm hearted and it clearly shows that she cares. When I wasn't sure which decision to take Helen found a way to gently talk me through the options until I'd figured it out for myself, this is a wonderful way to make sure everything was as my Dad would have wanted."
— Lee (about Helen)
Steve Welford
a month ago
Maria was excellent, she was extremely caring and considerate to our needs, everything was explained to great length. She also offered her knowledge and advice to help with the many difficult decisions.
Dave Kiddle
a month ago
I wanted to thank Maria & her team for Brian’s funeral, the amount of thought and care that went into the whole process was heartwarming. Every little detail from having a presentation cushion for his medals, to the suggestions of music to give this wonderful old soldier the send off he deserved. I couldn’t recommend Maria & J&L Sturney enough.
Elaine Challis
4 months ago
Faultless from start to finish. The respect paid to my mum by all staff but especially Maria was amazing. Nothing is too much trouble at the mist difficult time.
Susan Lane
a year ago
Maria was a joy to talk to. She was always professional and prepared to listen. She guided me through my Mother's funeral arrangements in such a lovely way. She made me feel valued. The funeral was perfect - I wouldn't have changed a thing. The rest of the staff were also exemplary, treating my Mother with respect throughout.
Lee
4 years ago
Helen at L & J Sturney has been absolutely amazing. My Dad passed away earlier this year and I am very pleased that we chose L & J Sturney in Lyndhurst to arrange the funeral. Helen has been amazing every step of the way. She is compassionate, friendly, warm hearted and it clearly shows that she cares. Helen has been exceptional in fact and very importantly Helen made sure that every detail was tended to and clearly explained. When I wasn't sure which decision to take Helen found a way to gently talk me through the options until I'd figured it out for myself, this is a wonderful way to make sure everything was as my Dad would have wanted. As these matters go Helen and her team made sure everything went smoothly and I would certainly recommend Helen and her team. Helen, you are a star and we could not have asked for more. Thank you.
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Ready to speak to someone? A free, no-obligation call can help you understand the next steps.
If anything has changed, a quick call with a specialist can confirm.
A quick call with a specialist can help you figure out what applies.
Question of 3
Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
Sail Probate · Fixed fees, nothing upfront
Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
Don't worry — lots of people aren't sure at this stage. A quick chat can work out whether the funeral costs can be covered.
Want to talk it through?
Free, no obligation.
Want to check with a specialist?
Free, no obligation.
Want to find out for sure?
Free, no obligation.
Sail Probate · Trusted by thousands of families
A specialist will call you soon
Free, no-obligation advice from Sail Probate
What happens next
Request received
Just now
A specialist reviews your details
Within 1 hour
You'll receive a call
Within 24 hours
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
Result saved
If you need help later, call Sail Probate free:
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
We'll give you a call
A Sail Probate specialist will talk you through everything and answer any questions.
Interested in: We handle everything (£6,000)
Interested in: Just the probate application (£1,000)
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
No problem
If you'd like to talk about probate or funeral costs, call Sail Probate free:
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
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