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Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
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Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
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Interested in: Just the probate application (£1,000)
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R Butler and Sons Funeral Directors, located at 5-5b Station Road in Hailsham, East Sussex, is part of the Dignity network — one of the UK's most trusted providers of funeral services and prepaid funeral plans. The branch is dedicated to serving the local Hailsham community with compassion, respect, and professionalism during life's most difficult moments.
As a Dignity funeral home, R Butler and Sons upholds the highest standards of care, with staff available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year to support families through every step of the funeral arrangement process. The branch offers a comprehensive range of services, including traditional funerals, cremations, and prepaid funeral plans, allowing families to make arrangements that truly reflect the wishes and personality of their loved one.
Dignity continually invests in its staff, premises, and vehicles to ensure families and their loved ones receive the very best care. Client satisfaction surveys consistently reflect this commitment, with nearly all families reporting that staff were respectful, premises were clean and tidy, and their needs and wishes were carefully listened to and fulfilled.
"We were guided and helped every step of the way, with kindness and compassion. My brother and I had no previous experience of what to do and the whole team at R Butler & Sons were fantastic."
— Terrence Williams
"Dawn and the team ensured everything was planned to my requirements, kept me informed during the arrangements, and prompted me ahead of time whenever I needed to action something. The day went faultlessly, allowing me to concentrate fully on the service."
— Ben Vince (about Dawn)
"Carol and the team provided a brilliant service and were fantastic with my dad who had lost his wife. Nothing was too much for them to do for us and their empathy was extremely comforting."
— P D (about Carol)
"All the staff were just the right combination of respectful but also light hearted, taking their lead from us. Louise absolutely caught his personality in her words of welcome, and pulled the service together wonderfully."
— Julie Blandford (about Louise)
"Everyone went above and beyond making our sad and stressful few weeks very calm and peaceful. So thank you all for everything you all did for us and our departed loved one."
— Teresa Lunn (about Carol)
"The moment we engaged with everyone at Butlers we instantly felt at ease, there was no pressure and they were extremely professional with a lovely touch of friendly empathy. We could not have asked for a better service to help us say our final goodbye to our beautiful mum."
— Clive Parsons
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If anything has changed, a quick call with a specialist can confirm.
A quick call with a specialist can help you figure out what applies.
Question of 3
Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
Sail Probate · Fixed fees, nothing upfront
Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
Don't worry — lots of people aren't sure at this stage. A quick chat can work out whether the funeral costs can be covered.
Want to talk it through?
Free, no obligation.
Want to check with a specialist?
Free, no obligation.
Want to find out for sure?
Free, no obligation.
Sail Probate · Trusted by thousands of families
A specialist will call you soon
Free, no-obligation advice from Sail Probate
What happens next
Request received
Just now
A specialist reviews your details
Within 1 hour
You'll receive a call
Within 24 hours
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
Result saved
If you need help later, call Sail Probate free:
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
We'll give you a call
A Sail Probate specialist will talk you through everything and answer any questions.
Interested in: We handle everything (£6,000)
Interested in: Just the probate application (£1,000)
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
No problem
If you'd like to talk about probate or funeral costs, call Sail Probate free:
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
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